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What makes a good co-parenting plan?

On Behalf of | Oct 13, 2022 | Child Custody |

At the onset, a divorce may seem like a lose/lose situation. After all, no one gets married with the goal of divorcing. However, if you have a child together, it is important that you figure out a living arrangement that will serve their best interests. And this is where a co-parenting plan comes in. 

Basically, co-parenting is a post-divorce arrangement where both parents jointly and actively participate in their child’s upbringing. However, like any other arrangement, you need a plan to make co-parenting work. 

Here are two tips that can help you develop an effective co-parenting plan:

1. Understand your child’s best interests

A great co-parenting plan should place the best interests of the child above everything else. These refer to the most crucial aspects of the child’s life such as their physical and emotional well-being. 

You may have an idea of what is best for your child, but taking time to discuss and reach a consensus with your ex will go a long way in ensuring that you are on the same page as far as the child’s wellbeing is concerned. And depending on the child’s age and level of understanding, you may involve them in coming up with the plan. 

2. Come up with a parenting schedule that works

A lot is bound to change after the divorce. The parenting schedule you come up with will give you an idea of how much time each of you will share with your child. It is imperative that you come up with a schedule that will work for everyone.

Most often, the family court will encourage a 50/50 time split. However, do keep in mind that nothing is cast in stone. Focus on the bigger picture – the best interests of the child and what works well for your unique family situation.

Divorce comes with a lot of challenges. Find out how you can create and implement a co-parenting plan that will work for everyone.