When divorced parents find themselves seeing only half as much of their kids (or less) as when they were together, it can bring out controlling behavior. Some become what are known as “helicopter parents.” These are parents who are overprotective and overly involved...
Finding Solutions To Complex Issues
Year: 2021
Bear these 4 things in mind when working out custody
You love your children and want to spend as much time with them as possible after your divorce. It sounds reasonable, and your spouse is probably thinking the same thing. They also love the kids and want to spend as much time as possible with them. How do you turn...
Proper communication is imperative in co-parenting
Parents who go through a divorce have to determine what’s best for the children. In almost all cases, having both parents around is what the kids need. This isn’t always as simple as it sounds. Both parents will have to make an effort to get along or the children can...
Can you legally separate instead of divorcing in Minnesota?
Yes, you can get a legal separation instead of or ahead of a Minnesota divorce. However, unlike many other states, our state does not require a separation period before filing for a divorce. While you can get a legal separation, make sure you understand what is...
Child custody statistics for parents to consider when divorcing
Ending a marriage when you have children is one of life’s most heart-wrenching events. You must think of yourself and try to plan a new start, but you must also consider how the divorce might impact your kids. Anytime you can learn from the experiences of others, it...
Parenting time can be complex with chaotic schedules
When getting divorced and trying to figure out how to divide parenting time, most parents are thinking about their own schedules. They have to work, the kids have to go to school, and they need a schedule that fits with their life. This balance can be difficult. It...
When is it a good idea to modify a parenting plan?
When parents decide to divorce, they need to decide who will have custody of their children. They also need to determine the parenting plan, which includes how much time each parent will spend with the children. The more comprehensive the parenting plan, the fewer...
How to navigate co-parenting for Halloween
Halloween is fast approaching. Soon enough, it will be time to take your kids trick-or-treating. Couples who have been divorced for a while likely already have a parenting plan in place that dictates how they’ll navigate the holidays, but newly separated parents might...
Why do you need to think like a child in divorce?
To your child, divorce looks like serious adult business. As parents, you might even tell them that when they ask a question. “Never mind, son, this is grown-up stuff between your mom and me.” Lawyers, accountants, courts and financial advisors are not something most...
2 of the biggest challenges for dads during divorce
Men often feel disadvantaged and even frightened when thinking about their custody rights in a divorce. There are persistent social myths that make fathers think they won't possibly be able to secure shared custody. On an individual basis, a father may be acutely...